Well, I got my feelings hurt this morning, and I am not sure that I was wrong. I suggested a restaurant for us to try, new things you know? Now, I understand her issues, but she just didn't want to even consider it. I don't want to make her feel bad, but it really hurt that she is not willing to try new things with me. I am always will to do what she wants, I don't even think twice usually. The difference is that I WANT to do things that make her happy, and I don't feel like it is a sacrifice (most of the time). She doesn't seem to feel the same way?
She did text me later to apologize, and I am grateful, but that doesn't change the fact that I wanted to cry when she was so adamant about saying no. I know that she didn't mean to hurt me, and I did tell her that I was not mad, but mostly because I could not, and did not want to, get into it right then...
Anyhow, if she doesn't want to go, she doesn't have to, I'll take the kids or something. But maybe in the future, I will think a little more, weather I want to do the things that she suggests or not... Not just be so willing to go along with things.
Blessed Be!
Misty
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