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Ranting, and writings and thoughts, and ideas, and the controlled randomness that is me...

Friday, March 29, 2013

Friday March 29th, 2013

Haven't blogged in a while...
I'm still alive...
That is all for now.
 
 
Blessed Be!
Misty
)O(
 

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Blessed Be!!!! 3.19.13

What could be bigger gay news than Hillary coming out for marriage, formerly anti-gay Sen. Rob Portman "evolving" to support marriage for his gay son, or new polling showing 58% of Americans supporting marriage?
How about New Mexico legalizing marriage equality?
The City of Santa Fe thinks it already is legal and they are about to make it official. 
This morning we joined Mayor Coss and Councilor Bushee to announce that they are sponsoring an official resolution "recognizing that same-sex marriage is legal in New Mexico and encouraging New Mexico's county clerks to issue licenses to same-sex couples."

That's a big deal and here's how it works:
Santa Fe's City Attorney Geno Zamora dug into the law and found that:
  • New Mexico's laws do not define marriage as between a man and a woman, the definitions are gender-neutral,  
  • A statutory list of prohibited marriages does not list same-sex couples;
  • Same-sex marriages from other states are already recognized by New Mexico law;
  • To discriminate against same-sex couples would violate the New Mexico Constitution which requires equality under the law regardless of sex.

His legal memo is the basis of the resolution.

The city says the resolution provides the legal justification for county clerks to issue marriage licenses to loving, committed couples and tells couples how to file suit if they are denied.
The resolution will be introduced next week, just as the Supreme Court takes up arguments on gay marriage and DOMA. 
After waiting too long for New Mexico's legislature to do the right thing, others are stepping up and it's time we support them.
Take a minute to read the city resolution, then express your support by signing on as a citizen co-sponsor  We'll deliver the list of co-sponsors to the city council for the vote and you'll want your name on it.
 
 
 
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Read the resolution
 

Monday, March 18, 2013

Monday, March 18th 2013

Well, I got my feelings hurt this morning, and I am not sure that I was wrong. I suggested a restaurant for us to try, new things you know? Now, I understand her issues, but she just didn't want to even consider it. I don't want to make her feel bad, but it really hurt that she is not willing to try new things with me. I am always will to do what she wants, I don't even think twice usually. The difference is that I WANT to do things that make her happy, and I don't feel like it is a sacrifice (most of the time). She doesn't seem to feel the same way?
 
She did text me later to apologize, and I am grateful, but that doesn't change the fact that I wanted to cry when she was so adamant about saying no. I know that she didn't mean to hurt me, and I did tell her that I was not mad, but mostly because I could not, and did not want to, get into it right then...
 
Anyhow, if she doesn't want to go, she doesn't have to, I'll take the kids or something. But maybe in the future, I will think a little more, weather I want to do the things that she suggests or not... Not just be so willing to go along with things.
 
Blessed Be!
Misty
)O(

Sunday, March 17, 2013

My weekend March 17th, 2013

Friday night, My Grrrl and I stayed up until after 4:00, watching a Friends marathon! Laughed, at ALL THE THINGS! What a nice time.

Saturday, went to Nana's like always, then came home, rolled yarn, got tired, My Grrrrl finished the job while she let me take a nap! Then we got up and worked on the courtyard, lots of black widow drama!

I didnt go to my bosses party. I kinda of feel bad that we didnt, but I know that I would have felt out of place and nervous, and maybe I would have had fun, but probably not, and then, when we tried to leave, I would have felt rude for not staying longer. I know that My Grrrl would not have had fun, because of all of the drunk people. I can have fun anywhere, just about, if I out my head to it, once I got over the nerves, I think... Maybe that is the biggest reason that I SHOULD have gone, to face a fear? Oh well, we stayed home, and I got to have an apple pie from Whataburger, AND I got to stay in my Jammie's, much funnier, and nothing to fear... Am I a whimp?

Just between you and me, I am already debating weather I should bale on my awards ceremony... I don't like getting up in front of people... :( I won't bale, there's a free meal in it, haha!

Well, we had fire time tonight with the kids. So much (inappropriate at times) fun! I had some soda with dinner. Soda is not agreeing with my lately, but I just can't stop drinking it... What the hell is wrong with me?

I will end this now, time to get snug as a bug in a rug... In bed!

Good night and
Blessed Be!
)O(
Misty

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Wooden's Day, march 13th, 2013

Beautiful day outside. I know, because I have seen outside when I leave my dungeon to go pee! LOL
 
I am so tired today, I regret getting up so early to come in... Ugh! I have plenty of sick time... I should just use it! Oh well, to late now, I'm in now! Maybe Ill head out a bit early today? We'll see.
 
My Grrrls glasses are in, so we could go do that if I did leave early. :)
 
Robert is here, should have been gone almost an hour ago, but, as usual, when letting my mother and a 13 year old boy make the plans, there was a mis-communication! LOL
 
Oh well, early to bed tonight... I really wish that Netflix worked here in my office. I have nothing to do, and I could totally be doing my zero reports. Watching a movie or show makes it seem to go faster...
 
Oh well, guess that I better get to it now.
 
Blessed Be!
Misty
)O(
 
 

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Wooden's Day 3.6.13

Long, productive day... Didn't really feel like I got much done though, not on paper at least... Oh well....

My head hurts, so bad it's making me sick to my stomach... Not good. To bad tomorrow is Thor's Day... If I called in for legitimate illness, My Grrrl would either have to not go do something she said she would, and needs to... Or she would go, and I'd be home all alone, well, me and the dogs! I don't want to stay home cuz I'm sick, I want to stay home so we can have a nekked pajama day....

Texting on the bus is not a good idea to help this matter, so I'll end this blog now, but I'm glad that I did it, I had fallen off th wagon again... Lol

Blessed Be
)O(
Misty